Rob remembers clearly what his family experienced when his father became ill. At the time, treatment options were limited, although medication did appear to slow the progression for a period.
“It kept us having a dad who, on the whole, we recognised, and who recognised us, for a bit longer,” he says. “So, we were grateful for that.”
He also saw the impact the disease had on his mother as she watched her husband change, something Rob describes as one of the most difficult parts of the experience.
Alzheimer’s touched his life again more recently when his close friend Joan developed the disease. Even towards the later stages, when communication had become difficult, Rob remembers the connection between them remaining.
“Her face used to light up,” he says. “She might have forgotten who I was, but she clearly knew that she knew me, and she felt safe and comfortable with me. That was just lovely.”
Rather than making Rob reluctant to know more about his own risk, those experiences made him more determined to take part in research.